The Day Ruth and the Universe Had My Back

At home, I have an Indie dog named Chillumi. She actually goes by many names, and I’m pretty sure she’s often confused because her human keeps calling her different ones. Still, she happily responds to anything I call her. She is my four-legged minimalist with strong opinion about food. She refuses to eat anything other than rice with chicken. No fancy dog food, no treats, no experiments, just her classic comfort combo.

Thanks to our friends Peter and Cynthia, we found a little chicken shop in Coimbatore that sells chicken bones for dogs. It has now become part of our routine. Whenever Cynthia travels to Coimbatore, she never forgets to call and check if Chilumi needs her supply. When she starts from Coimbatore, I also begin my short drive so we can meet halfway at Bethany Hospital. Sometimes, we even share a quick evening tea before parting ways.

Furry mastermind behind today’s chaos

Today was one of those days. I took a quick shower, got ready for the mini mission, and asked my brother if he wanted to tag along. He said his legs were hurting, which I ignored the first time, but for some reason, I asked again. This time, he agreed. Usually, I prefer going alone but something told me to take him along.

Everything was fine until I stopped at Anaikatti, right on the Tamil Nadu–Kerala border, to buy a bucket. My brother didn’t want the frozen chicken to drip water inside the car, so the bucket was his idea. I got the bucket and as I was waiting for the change, a familiar discomfort started to stir in my stomach. At first, I thought I could manage, after all, I have survived worse cramps during my monthly cycles. But within minutes, the situation escalated from a hint to a full declaration.

The place that turned a mini crisis into a funny story

I asked my brother to drive, explaining the urgency. He took his own sweet time switching seats, even joked about “drifting into Bethany” to make it dramatic. Meanwhile, I was silently calculating how many seconds it would take to reach the hospital. I was also reminded of a similar incident when my brother had been in a similar situation and I had made fun of him. I guess that’s karma in action.

Finally, we arrived at Bethany Hospital. I dashed in, confident that my rescue was seconds away, only to discover the universe had one last twist planned: no water anywhere! The hospital was undergoing plumbing work, and all water connections were temporarily shut off. Perfect timing, right?

Parked or drifting? Luckily, just parked!

Just as I was about to take my mobile to call Ruth, (doctor by profession, who also manages and oversees the hospital), I heard her voice calling my name. Talk about perfect timing. She appeared out of nowhere, like a guardian angel. I blurted out my situation (in the most dignified way possible) and without a moment’s hesitation, she whisked me away to the maternity ward, where thankfully, there was still running water. She even sent someone to fetch a bucket for me, absolute angel behaviour.

When the universe sends angels, they look like Ruth

When I stepped out, I told Ruth that I would forever be grateful for her timely rescue. I also told her that if there was ever a single moment in my life that made me truly glad to have met her, it has to be today. Silently, I thanked all my stars for bringing her into my life. Later, she mentioned that the hospital had been struggling with water issues and had just installed a new borewell. I silently sent a little prayer to the universe, “May Bethany Hospital never run out of water again!”

After the whole adventure, we didn’t end up having our evening tea. After hearing my story, everyone seemed to feel a hint of the same discomfort and wanted to rush home. We parted ways, and I drove back with a smile on my face, still laughing at how this little trip had turned into such a memorable story.

As for Chillumi, she was waiting back home, tail wagging, completely unaware that her humble chicken bones had triggered one of the most memorable adventures of my week. Because sometimes, life doesn’t need grand plans to create stories. It gives you stories you don’t plan to tell and yet, they make you laugh every single time you remember them.

You won’t Always find Angels in the Sky, sometimes They are in Scrubs

I have known Sister Ferisha since my 7th or 8th grade. Back then, she was the senior nurse or maybe the head nurse at JM Hospital in Coimbatore. I’m not exactly sure of her title, but what I do remember clearly is the comfort she brought me during one of the most painful recurring experiences of my teenage years: my monthly stomach cramps.

Meet Sister Ferisha – The hands that healed me more times than I can count.

Every month during my periods, I used to get intense abdominal pain. It was so bad that I would vomit and often end up being hospitalized. The pain would only subside after an injection and two bottles of IV drip. Since J M Hospital was close to my hostel and my parents used to consult Dr. Elizabeth there, my hostel warden would book a taxi and take me to the hospital. This happened at least three to four times a year.

At the hospital, I never had to take an OP ticket or wait to see a doctor. The minute Sister Ferisha saw me, she would say, “Oh, you have come?” and promptly get a room ready for me. She would walk in to my room with three bottles of glucose in hand, and I’d groan, “Three bottles? Can we make it two, sister?” She would smile and agree. She remembered exactly what medicines to give me, how my body responded, and what would make me feel better. People who know me well know that injections and IVs don’t faze me. Maybe it’s because I’ have had so many over the years that I just got used to it. Or maybe it’s because the angels at JM Hospital always made it feel a little less scary. And by evening, like magic, I would be back to normal and discharged.

This went on until I completed my Master’s. Then I moved to Chennai for work. One of my only worries was, “what if I have one of those painful episodes again? Who will take care of me like she did?” But strangely, I never had that kind of pain again in Chennai. Maybe the universe knew there was no Sister Ferisha waiting there for me, Or maybe the universe decided I had endured enough pain.

Years passed. I lost touch with her. Life moved on. Then in 2023, life brought me back to her. This time not for me, but for my father. He was unwell and admitted in the same hospital. And there she was again, standing by his side, caring, praying, comforting. Her quiet strength and compassion were the same. Not just her, every nurse at JM Hospital reminded us what angels in uniform look like.

One incident from a recent visit to Coimbatore stays with me. I had some personal work and made an impromptu stop at her house, just to say hi. But within minutes, she ordered dinner for us. While we waited, the animal lover in me kicked in and I started playing with her pet cat, and it scratched my hand. I didn’t think much of it at first, but later I began overthinking, what if I get rabies? Finally, I sheepishly told her. Without skipping a beat, she went to the hospital, got a TT injection, and gave it to me right there at her place. That’s just who she is.

And today, she came to our village for some personal work and stopped by to see us. I told her about a recent snake bite incident, and she got so emotional that her eyes welled up. And then she said something I’ll never forget:
“Your dad was a good man. Nothing bad will happen to his kids. God will protect you.”

That’s Sister Ferisha, a nurse, yes. But to me, she has always been a guardian, a quiet constant, and a reminder that some people are placed in our lives by the divine, just when we need them the most. I wanted to take a photo of her to capture these moments. But when you are having a real, heartfelt conversation, taking out a phone is the last thing on your mind. I will share whatever photos I do have of her someday. But for now, I carry her in my heart, the nurse who became family.

Have you ever met an angel in scrubs? Share your story in the comments!